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		<title>By: thom</title>
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		<description>Status quo.  That&#039;s pretty much it in a nutsack... er, nutshell. Except this status quo has been in place for hundreds and hundreds of years. It&#039;s a cultural thing - but I don&#039;t think it&#039;s about the sex. It&#039;s a power thing, sadly, and it&#039;s all about male dominance. 

Seems kinda silly, no? But it&#039;s the only logical reason I can see. In almost every culture, the male has a certain dominate role - whether he accepts it or not. The assumption is that power resides with the male. Now, when two gay males get together for some good ol&#039; lovin&#039;, it&#039;s assumed that one of them has to assume a feminine role.  I think it&#039;s this rejection of masculinity that has the history of breeders all in a tizzy. That&#039;s what they are really pointing to as an &quot;abomination.&quot;  What a load of crap!

But I think it kinda explains the illogical hatred of gays over the years.  I have never understood that hatred - that someone could *hate* another person for no logical reason just escapes me - and I&#039;m from the South where institutional hatred is common.

Over the past few years, though, I can sort of relate. I&#039;ve heard people spew just awful things about gays like &quot;they&#039;re sick!&quot; or &quot;they should just all get AIDS and die!&quot;  Instead of arguing against it, I just smile and say, &quot;Yeah. I feel the same way about smokers. They can&#039;t die fast enough.&quot;

I know, I know... it&#039;s sinking to their level. I&#039;m supposed to be above all that, right?  It&#039;s surprisingly satisfying. Chances are, the &quot;hatemonger&quot; smokes or at the very least knows someone who smokes. They cannot handle having their rants directed back at them. It&#039;s kinda cool to assume the moral highground. The view is pretty good from up here.  Now, where is that barking coming from...?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Status quo.  That&#039;s pretty much it in a nutsack&#8230; er, nutshell. Except this status quo has been in place for hundreds and hundreds of years. It&#039;s a cultural thing &#8211; but I don&#039;t think it&#039;s about the sex. It&#039;s a power thing, sadly, and it&#039;s all about male dominance. </p>
<p>Seems kinda silly, no? But it&#039;s the only logical reason I can see. In almost every culture, the male has a certain dominate role &#8211; whether he accepts it or not. The assumption is that power resides with the male. Now, when two gay males get together for some good ol&#039; lovin&#039;, it&#039;s assumed that one of them has to assume a feminine role.  I think it&#039;s this rejection of masculinity that has the history of breeders all in a tizzy. That&#039;s what they are really pointing to as an &#034;abomination.&#034;  What a load of crap!</p>
<p>But I think it kinda explains the illogical hatred of gays over the years.  I have never understood that hatred &#8211; that someone could *hate* another person for no logical reason just escapes me &#8211; and I&#039;m from the South where institutional hatred is common.</p>
<p>Over the past few years, though, I can sort of relate. I&#039;ve heard people spew just awful things about gays like &#034;they&#039;re sick!&#034; or &#034;they should just all get AIDS and die!&#034;  Instead of arguing against it, I just smile and say, &#034;Yeah. I feel the same way about smokers. They can&#039;t die fast enough.&#034;</p>
<p>I know, I know&#8230; it&#039;s sinking to their level. I&#039;m supposed to be above all that, right?  It&#039;s surprisingly satisfying. Chances are, the &#034;hatemonger&#034; smokes or at the very least knows someone who smokes. They cannot handle having their rants directed back at them. It&#039;s kinda cool to assume the moral highground. The view is pretty good from up here.  Now, where is that barking coming from&#8230;?</p>
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